The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children says that 1 in 5 children are sexually solicited online.According to Match.com, 1 in 5 relationships begin online. It could be your worst nightmare or a dream come true.Over the weekend, I discovered perhaps the strangest new addition to the Christian dating cadre: Reformed The site is designed exclusively for Christians who adhere to the Calvinist tradition, a theological system that focuses on human depravity, God’s sovereignty, and the idea that God has already chosen the select few who will be saved.Others include Loveandseek.com, Christian Cafe.com, and Equally Together, they form a pool of eligible Christian singles that is rapidly growing in size. The selection proves again that while the Lord may “looketh at the heart,” His people are still very much interested in outward appearances. Their profile pictures are surprisingly provocative—low cut shirts, exposed shoulders, skin-tight pants, pouty lips.
The problem is, you cannot tell the difference at first.To learn more about Amazon Sponsored Products, click here. Pro: There are great people online (I have found them, know them, and am one of them).It is now deemed the fastest growing online community for Christians.But it is only one of many online dating sites for the mate-less faithful.As a single Christian with a full-time vocation (and/or part-time church work) it is very difficult to find the time to meet someone (a Christian) because it always seems churches are full of married couples. Well that depends on how you use it; as a young single Christian woman I have studied and prayed over what the Bible teaches on looking for a husband. I know I would fall into that trap, treating these men like they are any other object that you can buy or sell online. For me it seems like when we sign up for these things we are saying: ‘Ok God, all my friends are getting engaged and I am not – you’ve had your chance and haven’t delivered the goods so now it’s my turn.’ We become impatient.