Still, with similar proportions of college men and women hooking up, others wonder if hookup culture might be liberating for young women.
Perhaps it’s even a sign that the traditional sexual double standard is a thing of the past. On the one hand, college hookup culture allows women to explore their sexuality in ways that previous generations of women could not.
On the other hand, it is a deeply gendered custom that can enhance a man’s reputation and damage a woman’s.
As a sociologist who studies gender and sexuality, I decided to explore the status of the traditional sexual double standard in college hookup culture.
From dance floors to bedrooms, everyone was hooking up—myself included.
Sex, if it ever manifested itself in the media, came in the form of a warning: you couldn’t watch a Thai soap opera without seeing the heroine, at least once, be threatened by rape. It wasn’t the kissing that left me incredulous – it was that the two were kissing (and quite passionately at that), without a care as to who could see them.
I told myself that I was a feminist, despite subjecting myself to unfulfilling, emotionally damaging sexual experiences. *** I had a puppy-love relationship with my high school boyfriend, the kind you see in movies.
The popular media most frequently characterizes hookup culture as a series of emotionless one-night stands.
At Middlebury, such casual hookups definitely occur.